Kodi Mwana Wanu Ndi Wozunzidwa Kwambiri? Zizindikiro Zoyamba Zochenjeza

Dziko lothamanga kwambiri, lomwe lili ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wathu ndi zatsopano zomwe zimakopa chidwi cha munthu aliyense posakhalitsa. Ndi kupita patsogolo kwakukulu kwa digito, kuwulula kuthekera kokwaniritsa zofunikira zaukadaulo kumakhala ngati khomo lachisangalalo, mwamakhalidwe komanso mwakuthupi, kutilola kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika mochedwa ndikugogoda chala. Palibe chimene chimapita kutali ndi inu; chida chimodzi chokha chimakulumikizani padziko lonse lapansi. Mosakayikira, matekinoloje amabweretsa chitonthozo ndi chitonthozo, koma ndi ubwino wawo wambiri, palinso mfundo zina zomwe zimasonyeza mbali zawo zoipa, zomwe zingakhale zobisika koma zimakhala zovuta. Kukula kwa zododometsa zomwe kholo labwino likukumana nazo masiku ano, m'pamenenso limakhala lingaliro lodzikongoletsa.

Kudzikongoletsa sikuli kanthu koma ngati poizoni wapang'onopang'ono, womwe umasiyanitsa luso lachinyengo lomwe limaperekedwa makamaka kudzera mwa adani kuti apindule chikhulupiriro cha ana kuti adzawadyera masuku pamutu. Nkhawa za makolo ndi chifukwa chake kudzikongoletsa kunachitika, koma kuti agwire cholinga nthawi isanathe. Nkhani zenizeni n’zambiri masiku ano, kumene n’kosatheka kudziŵa ngati anthu okayikitsa akukonzekeretsa ana anu; ndipamene makolo amasowa chochita.

Kuti muthane ndi zovuta, pitilizani kuwerenga blog iyi. Tiwona zomwe kukongoletsa nkhope kumatanthauza, zizindikiro zoyambirira, ndi zomwe makolo angachite kuti apite patsogolo ndikuyang'ana mosamala zomwe ana awo akuwonera pa digito. Komanso, pamapeto, tikambirana momwe Kumakumakuma ndi bwenzi lenileni laukadaulo kupulumutsa tsogolo la ana anu, chilichonse chisanachitike.

Kudzisamalira ndi lingaliro loti ozunza amafuna kuti ana aziwakhulupirira, nthawi zambiri, achikulire, monga mabanja kapena osamalira. Njira yothandiza kwa okonza kuti asagwidwe ndikupeza mwayi kwa ana, nawonso. Ngakhale kuti palibe “mbiri” imodzi yokha yochitira nkhanza ana, ambiri amatsatira njira zofanana zokonzekeretsa ozunzidwawo ndi anthu owazungulira. Ngakhale kuti palibe “mbiri” imodzi yokha yochitira nkhanza ana, ambiri amatsatira njira zofanana zokonzekeretsa ozunzidwawo ndi anthu owazungulira.

Kumvetsetsa ma syndromes ngati gawo loyamba lachitetezo. Zimatenga nthawi yayitali kuti zizindikire, popeza adani ndi akatswiri pakupanga kwawo, koma zikadziwika, palibe kubwerera. Chinthu choyamba ndi kufufuza zochita za ana, zomwe amakonda, ndi zomwe sakonda. Ngati ayesa kubisa zinthu zawo, zizindikirozi siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa ndi makolo, olera, kapena aphunzitsi. Asiyeni akhale omasuka, koma kulumikizana kwabwino kumapulumutsa miyoyo yawo.

Chifukwa chosonyezera Kukula ndi wakupha mwakachetechete, popeza simudziwa yemwe chidwi chake chilidi moona mtima ndi mwana wanu. Ngakhale kuyandikira kwambiri kungayambitse kupezerera kapena kuwopseza ana anu. Ana, ndi msinkhu wawo wakukula, amatenga mphatso, kuyamika, kupirira, kumva chikondi, ndi kukoma mtima. Koma sialiyense amene amafuna kutsata chikondi; ena ndi zilombo zobisika kuseri kwa nkhope zawo zowopsa.

Kuphatikiza apo, izi zimapangitsa lingaliro la kudzikongoletsa kukhala lovuta kwambiri, monga momwe ana amawonera kukhala amphamvu m'malingaliro, koma amadzimva kuti ndi amtengo wapatali kapena okondedwa, pomwe kwenikweni akuwagwiritsa ntchito. Motero, ana amene sadziwa kuti chinachake chalakwika salimba mtima kulankhula momasuka. Palibe cholakwika kapena chokhumudwitsa kwa ana; nthawi zina wachinyamata amaphonya mwayi wosokonezeka maganizo. Zinthu zikawoneka, kulumikizana pakati pa owongolera ndi achichepere kumakhala kolimba, ndipo mwayi wolowera umachepa. Choncho, zinthu zisanafike kumutu wanu, koma osati kulamulira. Phunzitsani nokha monga makolo kapena olera owona mtima, zindikirani kudzikongoletsa, ndipo chitanipo kanthu mwamsanga kuti muchitepo kanthu koyenera.

Sizodziwikiratu nthawi zonse kuzindikira kudzikongoletsa pamene zikuchitika, koma zizindikiro zoyamba, zochitika, zizolowezi zokayikitsa za digito, ndi makhalidwe amalingaliro angasonyeze kuti chinachake chalakwika. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe makolo ayenera kuyang'ana nthawi zonse:

Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoyambirira zosonyeza kuti mwana akuleredwa ndi khalidwe lobisa zinthu akamagwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zamagetsi. Mwana amene ankagwiritsa ntchito foni kapena tabuleti yake momasuka pamaso pa achibale kapena anzake, mwachitsanzo, angayambe kuphimba zenera, kuchepetsa zowonekera mwachangu, kuyamba kulondera mawu achinsinsi ndi chipangizo chokhoma, ndikusintha mawu achinsinsi. Atha kukana kukhala kutali ndi foni yawo - ngakhale kuchipinda chosambira - kapena kuchita zinthu movutikira wina akawona chophimba. Khalidwe lotere likhoza kusonyeza kuti wina akuwalimbikitsa bisani zokambirana kapena zochita. "Sanena kuti chinsinsi chamtunduwu ndi chitetezo chikhoza kukhala mbendera yofiira pakudzikongoletsa."

Ana amene amaphunzitsidwa nthawi zambiri amathera nthawi yochuluka pa intaneti, ndipo ena amagwiritsa ntchito zipangizo nthawi zachilendo. Mutha kuwawona akuyamba kuzembera pazida mukawauza kuti agone, osadya chakudya kuti athe kukhala pa intaneti kapena kukambitsirana kwa maola ambiri ndi “mabwenzi atsopano.” Okwatirira amachita zimenezi mwadala—amapangitsa ana kumva kuti sangaphonye uthenga kapena kukhumudwitsa munthu amene amamukhulupirira. Chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri ndi pamene mwana wanu ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu omwe simukuwadziwa, kapena amayamba kukonda mwadzidzidzi nsanja inayake. Makhalidwe ochulukira pa intaneti - makamaka akabisidwa - atha kukhala, mukudziwa, china chake chomwe chimamveka cholakwika.

Ngati mwana wanu mwadzidzidzi ali ndi zipangizo zamakono, zovala, ngakhale makhadi olipidwa kapena ndalama zomwe sangathe kuzipeza kumalo ena a ndalama, angakhale atakopeka kale ndi chigawenga. Mphatso zimasonyeza kukhulupirika, kukhulupirirana, ndi ngongole yamalingaliro ya akwati ndi ogona nawo. Chifukwa, mukudziwa, mphatso zomwe zimangobwera mosayembekezereka zimakhala zosangalatsa mukakhala mwana komanso zokometsera, kotero sitimakonda kukayikira zomwe zikuyambitsa.

Kudzikongoletsa kumene ana amachita ndiko kusintha chinenero, kamvekedwe ka mawu, kapena kaonekedwe ka nkhope kamene kamasonyeza kuti palibe vuto. GenZ adagwiritsa ntchito slang (Mpangidwe wachidule, chidule), kotero kuti azitha kulankhula zakugonana, zachikulire, zosayenera, ndi zokhutira zomwe makolo sayenera kuzimvetsetsa. Khalani offside ndikukhala ndi kusinthasintha kwamalingaliro, kuchokera kwa munthu wachimwemwe kupita ku wakuda nkhawa. Mdani wawoyo anatsutsa zimene akuwakonzawo ananena, zomwe zinali zamphamvu kwambiri m’miyoyo yawo. Zizindikiro zimenezi zingaoneke ngati zosaoneka bwino, koma atafufuzidwa bwino kwambiri, anawo angapeze akuwakonzawo kukhala mabwenzi enieni, owayang’anira, osaganizira mtengo wake. Chizindikiro kuti makolo azindikire, ngati akuwoneka, kusintha kwadzidzidzi kwa machitidwe a chinenero chawo, ndi mbendera yofiira, koma osati kukhumudwa, yesetsani kukhala omasuka ndi olunjika nawo.

Pa nthawi yodzikongoletsa, ana amakonda kukopa chidwi ndi kugwirizana ndi munthu yemwe angakhale wamkulu kuposa iwo. Kambiranani zizolowezi, zokonda, zomwe amakonda, zokambirana, malingaliro, ndipo ngati simukugwirizana nazo, angakhumudwe. Ubale umenewu umamveka mopambanitsa pouyerekeza ndi ubwenzi pamene kaŵirikaŵiri umanyalanyazidwa mwa kunyalanyaza chirichonse chouzungulira. Ngakhale zimenezo, mkwati amene amapukuta maganizo awo mosamala kwambiri, sakonda kukhala pafupi ndi mabanja awo, amayi, abambo, ngakhale mabwenzi awo. Kusokoneza maganizo ana kumaphatikizapo zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda, kuika patsogolo maganizo a moyo wawo, ndikuyika maganizo athu enieni, owona mtima awo. Kodi chimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta bwanji? Ana amakhala oledzera kwa iwo mwamalingaliro ndi mwakuthupi, ndipo amapha njira yodzikongoletsa isanachitike.

Okonza amapezerapo mwayi pakukula kwawo kwamalingaliro nthawi zina akawona mwana akuwagwiritsa ntchito ndikuyamba kuwakhulupirira, kuwasankha ngati munthu wabwino kwambiri pamoyo wawo. Ochitira nkhanza amayamba zochita zawo, kunyalanyaza ndi kusakonda ana, kuwakakamiza kusunga zinsinsi kwa aliyense, kubisa macheza, mafoni, zithunzi zosayenera, ndi mavidiyo ochokera kwa mabanja. Tiyerekeze kuti ana sakukwaniritsa zofunikira; sali okakamizika kugawana zinsinsi zawo. M'kupita kwa nthawi, kuchita zinthu mwanzeru kumakula kwambiri, zomwe zimakhudza kudzidalira kwa ana, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti asakhale ndi chidaliro komanso kusalankhulana bwino komwe kumakhudza moyo wawo, chikhalidwe chawo, ndi maphunziro awo. Makolo anawona ana awo akusonyeza khalidwe lachisoni, laukali, ndi lachinsinsi mopambanitsa, chifukwa chakuti sachita manyazi pamaso pa akuwasamalira, kupeŵa kuswa maubale awo popeza amadalira iwo kotheratu.

Kudzisamalira kumabweretsa vuto lamalingaliro komanso malingaliro, komanso kupsinjika komwe kumadzimva m'maganizo kudzera m'malingaliro, maloto, komanso mwakuthupi ndi zovuta zonse zachiwiri zomwe timadziunjikira. Ana ena amathanso kunena kuti m'mimba ululu, mutu, kapena kugona, zomwe sizidziwika chifukwa chachipatala. Kukwiyitsidwa, kulota zoopsa, ndi jitters zosafunikira ndizofalanso. Mwana amene poyamba anali wodzidalira tsopano mwadzidzidzi akumva kupsinjika maganizo, kugawanika, kapena kuchita mantha popanda chifukwa chenicheni. Zizindikiro za kupsinjika maganizo nthawi zambiri zimachotsedwa ngati ana ali ana, koma aganizireni ndi zizindikiro zina zodzikongoletsa.

Pomaliza, akuti mbendera yofiyira yayikulu ndi yakuti mwana wanu amateteza kwambiri kulumikizana kwawo pa intaneti. Mwachitsanzo, angakane kuulula amene akutumizirana nawo mameseji, kuwachotsa mwamsanga pambuyo powaŵerenga, kapena kutsutsa maganizo akuti zokambirana zina “zachinsinsi” osati za makolo. Masewera a Fatou. Kaya mukupatula mapulogalamu, kusintha mawu achinsinsi nthawi zonse, kapena kusunga maakaunti achinsinsi (yomwe imatchedwanso "finsta, ndi mbiri zobisika), kusuntha kulikonse komwe kumapangitsa kuti chinachake zisawoneke kuti chilipo kuposa momwe mungachiwonere.

Ana samvetsetsa zomwe dziko lamakono la intaneti liri nalo; mphamvu zawo sizisiyanitsa pakati pa kukoma mtima, chikondi, chisamaliro ndi zolinga zakuya, zowopsya. Ozunza amaukira malingaliro awo osalakwa, kukulitsa kukhulupirirana, ndi kuchepetsa kusamala kwawo. Kuyang'anira makolo kwapangidwa kuti kuzindikira zoopsa ndi kuteteza ana ku ziwopsezo, popanda kusokoneza kapena kuphwanya zinsinsi zawo, koma m'malo mwake kuwaphunzitsa za kulinganiza ufulu wabwino wapa digito ndi kuyang'anira bwino.

Tsatirani mfundo ya "kukhulupirira koma tsimikizirani". Apatseni ufulu wapadera wakuthupi kuti asangalale ndi malo awo a digito, koma awonetseni ku ziopsezo kapena opezerera anzawo omwe sangathe kuwagwira mwanzeru. Chifukwa chake, nthawi yopepuka ndiyofunikira kuyang'anira.

Kulankhulana kotseguka komwe ana amamva kuti ali otetezeka kugawana zinthu zosayenera popanda kukwiya kapena kuweruza. Ingoganizirani zimene ananena, yesani kukambirana mwaubwenzi, ndipo yesetsani kukhala omasuka kugawana maganizo amene sanawapemphe popanda kuchita mantha.

Lingaliro la kudzikongoletsa ndi latsopano kwa ana ndi makolo awo. Komabe,. Koma dziwani za adani a pa intaneti, ndipo khalani odziwa zaposachedwa komanso nkhani. Phunzitsani ana za mmene kudzikongoletsa kumaonekera ndi choti achite akakumana nazo. Odyera amatha kukopa chidwi chawo ndi mawu awo okoma, koma perekani mphamvu kwa ana anu kuti awone mbali yowawa kumbuyo kwa kukoma kwawo.

Pomaliza, kukhala ndi thanzi labwino, komwe simungathe kuswa chinsinsi chawo koma osawasiya osatetezeka. Kusamala bwino kumasonyeza kuyang’anira kwa makolo mosungika ndi kodalira, m’malo mokhala wodzitetezera mopambanitsa. Cholinga chake ndi kukulitsa malingaliro a ana, monga momwe kuyang'anira kwa makolo kulili kwachitetezo, osati kukhudzika mtima. Iwo amangolemekeza malire anu.

Mwa njira zonse zofunikira zachitetezo komanso kumvetsetsa kwamaphunziro, sizingakhale zokwanira. Chifukwa chake ndikuti dziko masiku ano limagwiritsa ntchito zida zapamwamba zomwe makolo sadziwa. A Thates, komwe angagwiritsire ntchito mwanzeru ukadaulo, zida zina zimabwera kudzapulumutsa makolo. Comey, wopulumutsa kuposa ena onse, chitsanzo cha zomwe makolo amadalira ndi maso akhungu. Kuphatikiza pa mapulogalamu azikhalidwe, TheOneSpy ndi mtolo wachitetezo chokwanira womwe umapereka tsatanetsatane wa zida za ana popanda kusokonezedwa, kugwidwa, kapena kuzindikirika. Makolo amatha kuwona macheza awo aposachedwa, mafoni, kugawana mafayilo, ndi zina zambiri ndikungodina kamodzi. Kugwira ntchito kuseri kwa chitseko, tsatirani ndi kujambula zochitika kuti palibe chomwe chingakutuluke m'maso mwanu.

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