Ukuba ngabazali uma ubuza ngisho nezingane zakho kanye nentsha ukuthi indlela ezokuxhumana nabantu noma umhlaba wedijithali eziyithinta ngayo izimpilo zabo, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi bazokuma noRosen. Ubuchwepheshe bokukhulisa isizukulwane kubikwa ukuthi bazizwa besondelene kakhulu nabangane babo online futhi yangempela-impilo ngoba ukuguqulwa kwedijithali eyenza sikwazi ukuxhumana nezinhlobonhlobo eziningi zabantu abanezintshisakalo ezejwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, yize isizukulwane sithandana nezimpilo zabo zedijithali, okwamanje asikwazi ukuphendula umbuzo ozayo mayelana nokuzibandakanya kwabo kwesikhathi eside nomhlaba wedijithali nangemikhuba yabo yedijithali. Kungase kudingeke sisebenze kanzima futhi kube nzima eminye iminyaka embalwa emihle nokubi futhi imiphumela eyethusayo yempilo yedijithali yezingane zethu kanye nemiphumela yayo empilweni yabo. Okwamanje, kungaba umbono ofanele ukusho ukuthi izingane ezincane nentsha zithinteka kahle futhi ezinye zimbi. Kepha!
Eminye imibuthano yezimpilo zezingane ezitholakele ine-rap emibi kakhulu
Ama-Smartphones anamuhla, imidlalo ye-inthanethi, ama-movie, ithelevishini kanye ne-cyberpace angasolwa ngokuphelele ngokukhuluphala kwengane, i-ADD / i-ADHD ukuphazamiseka kokulala, ukushukuma komsindo ekilasini, ukuziphatha komzimba kwentsha, ukuthumela imiyalezo yocansi, ukubukela izinsuku zobulili ezingcolile nezingaboni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izwe ledijithali lezingane linasohlangothini oluhle nalo: ukuhlinzeka izingane zakho ngocingo ngomakhalekhukhwini kanye nenombolo kamama ekushayweni okusheshayo kufaka ukukhathazeka komzali. Izingane ezincane nentsha bayalelwa ukuba benze umsebenzi wabo wesikole kwimishini yamakhompiyutha futhi bacwaninga ngezifundo zabo behleli emitatsheni yezincwadi.
Kukholwe noma ungakukholwa! Impilo yedijithali yezingane ithuthele inkundla yokudlala yaya kwidijithali
Yebo! Kuliqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi uyathanda noma awuzali abazali, iningi lawo ukuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalo zezingane zakho futhi intsha evame ukukhula ezikoleni noma komakhelwane bathuthele kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zemiyalezo esheshayo kanye nezindonga zewebhusayithi ezinjenge-Facebook, Yahoo, Line, Vine, Tinder, WhatsApp, Snapchat kanye nenqwaba yabanye ngokufanayo ngendlela yemiyalezo yombhalo, izingxoxo zezingxoxo, izingxoxo zomsindo kanye nevidiyo, imidiya eyabiwe njengezithombe namavidiyo, ukuphakelwa kwezindaba nemilayezo yezwi. "Izihloko zezindaba zibubula ngokulahleka" kokuxhumana kwabantu kwangempela "ngenkathi iningi labanye bejabule ukuthola amathuba okuxhumana nokuxhumana kwe-digital okunikezwe ngumhlaba wedijithali kanye nabezindaba.
"Le ndaba iyaphendulwa futhi inqwaba yabantu kule mpikiswano inemibono eqinile, kusho uDaren Janzen, udokotela wezifo zengqondo esibhedlela i-OHSU's Doernbecher Wezingane. "Akufanele sithuse kusuka kwezobuchwepheshe, kepha ngakolunye uhlangothi kufanele sicabange ngokuqonda futhi kufanele sithathe isinqumo sokuthi izingane zethu nentsha kufanele basebenzisane kanjani nayo", waveza nokuthi.
Nabazali babandakanyeka nasekuzilolongeni izithupha
Ngubani osola! Lapho ukusetshenziswa kwemidiya yangemuva-lokho kungabazali sekuxakeke kakhulu ngabezindaba futhi umhlaba wedijithali futhi uhlale uphazamiseka ekuxhumaneni nezingane. Ngenye yezinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu futhi enzima futhi enomsebenzi omatasa kubazali bezingane ongafuna ukuzihola ukuzivocavoca kwezithupha zabo kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zemiyalezo yokuxhumana nabantu, imidlalo yevidiyo namakholi we-IM. "Ubuchwepheshe bezizukulwane Isisulu sokukhuluphala kanye nezinkinga eziningi zezempilo ngenxa yokusebenzisa ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngokweqile kubuchwepheshe be-Smartphones futhi ihlala yodwa ezimpilweni zabo zedijithali. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe bezempilo bagqugquzela abazali ukuthi basebenzise isikhathi esiningi nezingane zabo engxoxweni futhi benze izingane zabo ukudlala i-playchool yamahhala, umuntu abe umuntu nomuntu ukuxhumana nokuzivocavoca umzimba.
Izinkinga zezempilo eziphezulu ngenxa yempilo yedijithali yezingane
Ukukhuluphala yisici esijwayelekile okutholakale phakathi kwabathandi bedijithali bukhoma nezinkinga zokushoda kwengqondo yizinkinga ezishisayo kubazali. Batali bakhatsatekile nge ubudlelwane bezingane zabo nobuchwepheshe nezinkinga zezempilo. I-ADHD ingukuzibamba, izingane ezithintekile azigxili kweminye imisebenzi ebalulekile yezimpilo zazo futhi kuzoba ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu wabazali ukudonsela izingane ezidingida imidiya yedijithali ezinseleleni zangempela. Empeleni, kungenzeka kungalethi ingane yakho ekunakekelweni kwezokwelashwa, kodwa ukudonsa izingane zedijithali ezixwaya izingane kusuka ekunakekeleni ukujwayeza imikhuba. Esikhundleni sokugxila ezifundweni zabo, izingane eziqashile zigxuma zisuka komunye umbhalo ezitholwa zivela kubangani ziya kolunye, zisuka kwenye ividiyo ziye kwenye ividiyo futhi zithumela noma zabelana ngezinto kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zemiyalezo yokuxhumana nabantu ziye kwenye.
Ungayikhulisa kanjani ingane ezweni elikhulayo lobuchwepheshe elikhulayo?
Ukuba ngumzali kwengane kuwumsebenzi onzima wabazali ikakhulukazi bomama abangabodwa noma obaba futhi uye waba mandla ezweni elikhulayo lobuchwepheshe lapho kufanele wazi khona impilo yedijithali yezingane zakho ukuvimbela izingqinamba zezempilo. Kufanele udlule ukunakwa kwezingane zakho: i-ins nokuphuma kwe siguqula manjalo amathuluzi okuxhumana namathuluzi njengama-Smartphones nemishini yekhompyutha exhunywe ku-inthanethi nezinhlelo zokusebenza zemidiya yezokuxhumana namasayithi kanye nezinketho zokuzijabulisa. Kufanele ubeke imikhawulo futhi ufinyelele kokuqukethwe okungafanele iminyaka nesikhathi sesikrini se-TV futhi. Abazali kufanele balawule lapho kufanele vumela izingane zabo ukuthi zibuke izikrini zabo futhi isikhathi esingakanani okufanele basisebenzise nabezindaba ezintsha nobuchwepheshe. Kodwa-ke, abazali kufanele bazi amaqhinga wokuqhakambisa izingane zabo impilo yedijithali. Namuhla sizokunikeza ukwaba izeluleko eziwusizo kubazali abanesifiso sokukhathazeka futhi abakhathazekile.
Sebenza kancane kancane ekukhulisweni kwezingane zakho zedijithali
Ubuchwepheshe bezizukulwane busetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa cishe amahora ayisikhombisa ngosuku ukuze babe nohlobo oluthile lokuzijabulisa besebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ngomakhalekhukhwini, amakhompyutha kanye namagajethi futhi kubonakala kungenakugwenywa. Bazali kudingeka babe nokulawula ngobuningi besikhathi izingane nentsha zichitha nobuchwepheshe bedijithali. Abazali kudingeka bavule amadivaysi abo kusuka ku-inthanethi lapho bachitha isikhathi nezingane zabo nentsha futhi nabazali kufanele bagweme ukusetshenziswa kwemidiya ngayo yonke imigomo ukunikeza isikhathi sokuxhumana sekhwalithi ezinganeni. Kodwa-ke, isilawuli semidiya esiphelele ekhaya, kungenzeka ukuthi izingane zakho zigcwalise izidingo zazo lapho ungekho uziphathe njengomama wendiza enophephela emhlane. Ngakho-ke, bazoba nokuchayeka okwengeziwe ngaphandle kwendlu njengasezikoleni futhi basaphuthelwa ama-advent real.
Okuqukethwe yinto ebalulekile
Okuqukethwe yinto esemqoka edinga ukubhekelwa futhi abazali kufanele baphaphame mayelana nemithamo emincane yeminyaka yokuvunyelwa
okuqukethwe kwangaphambili Beka amadivayisi wakho ngokulawulwa ngabazali futhi ungavumeli izingane zakho ukuthi zifinyelele kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zomphakathi ezingafanele futhi zisebenzisa amaselula wesimanje akunikeza amandla setha izinto zangasese kokuqukethwe okuthile okungenzeka xhaphaza izingane zakho. Noma kunjalo, ungavumela izingane zakho ama-movie akhombisa izinhlelo zokulinganisa futhi kunjalo nangama-movie.
Hola izingane zakho ngesibonelo
Indlela elula yokwenza izingane zakho zokuxhumana okunempilo ukubeka ezinye izindima endlini yakho futhi lonke ilunga lomndeni lidinga ukulandela. Tshela izingane zakho ngisho nabazali uqobo babo bonke ngeke basebenzise umakhalekhukhwini, imithombo yezokuxhumana, ama-imeyili nemiyalezo ikakhulukazi etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa. Akekho ovumele ukuveza iTV. Noma kunjalo, ngesikhathi esithile sesikhathi vumela zonke izingane zakho umhlaba wedijithali futhi uqondise izingane zakho mayelana nobumfihlo be-inthanethi, izingozi ze-cyber ikakhulukazi ngabantu abahamba ngezinyawo nabahlukumeza ngokocansi lapho unengxoxo enempilo nezingane zakho nentsha. Abazali kufanele futhi bagweme ukubuka uhlobo lokuqukethwe ukubuka phambi kwezingane zabo.
Izindawo Ezesikrini Esikhululekile
Abazali bangenza izikhala ezingenazikrini endlini futhi bangazi kalula ukuthi isikhathi esingakanani izingane zabo nentsha zichithe esibukweni sezingcingo zomakhalekhukhwini kanye nemishini yamakhompiyutha naku-TV. Kodwa-ke, kuyasiza nabazali ukuthi babazi awunakho ukufinyelela kokuqukethwe okungafanele. Njalo hlinzeka ngemishini yekhompyutha yezingane zakho ikakhulukazi lapho ineminyaka yobudala futhi ukhiye igumbi lapho ubeke khona amadivaysi ekhompyutha. Musa ukubeka isikrini ngisho nasesitulo esingemuva semoto yakho lapho izingane zakho nentsha zisetshenziselwa ukubheka isikrini sisondele emehlweni abo. Kodwa-ke, ukusika izingane zakho emithonjeni yezokuxhumana nakwamanye amasayithi ezokuxhumana kungaletha inkinga yezingane ezivela ezinhlangothini zontanga. Konke okudingeka ukwenze ukwenza ingqondo yengane yakho ukuthi ingakanani uma kukhulunywa ngokusetshenziswa kwemidiya yedijithali nokuthi kufanele bayisebenzise kanjani.
Isiphetho:
Izingane ezincane ezisetshenziswa kokuqukethwe okunodlame zivame ukutholakala zikhuphuka kulaka lwazo uma kungeyona isikrini. Umkhawulo omningi ngesikhathi sesikrini awulungile futhi, ngakho-ke bonisa abanye kuvumelana nezimo ekukhuleni kwedijithali. Abazali badinga nje ukudala umqondo ezinganeni ukuthi ukufinyelela ngokweqile empilweni yedijithali kungadala izingqinamba zempilo nokuziphatha kwabo.
Imithombo:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-moment-youth/201211/generation-tech-the-good-bad-and-scary https://www.pdxmonthly.com/articles/2013/5/2/technology-and-childrens-health-may-2013
